Welcome to WHL.
I am glad you figured out how to sign up.
You sound like a person who will bring alot of laughs to this site.
Most of us know, that it is a battle until you finally get a diagnosis. So hang in there, hopefully it is right around the corner.
As for your husband, he might be in denial. It is so hard for us lupies to wrap our head around this disease, just amagine how hard it is for your husband. Why is he pushing you so hard to work? Is your family depending on your income?
It is different for me, my husband wants me to stop working, but I know, that we can't afford it. So I push myself and very rarely tell him how bad I feel. But he can see it and feels bad, that I have to work. We need my income and my good health insurance. Maybe once you have a diagnosis, he can educate himself and learn everything there is to know about lupus.
Keep coming here and talk to us, you will see, how much it helps to talk to people who understand.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).