I am having a bad flare - first one in a year and a half - and lack of support from my husband makes things harder to handle. One minute he's supportive but then a minute later acts like he doesn't understand why I've spent two weeks on the couch. It's as though he thinks I can control what I'm going through. Am going to the rheumy in a week and hope she'll give me something. Help! I hate this. Thanks for any suggestions.