Rob you seem to be very quick with your come backs. I only think of good things to say back to people afterwards when they are long gone. Perhaps we should all have a liitle black book with effective comebacks to use at the appropriate times. When we are insulted, we can pause and say "just a minute' then flick through the little book then say 'there I got you with this cool one liner'.
Actually, that would be really luppie, and will add to their confirmation that people with Lupus are just a bit strange. mmmm. I have to come up with something better.
Denise, we often hurt the people we love the most. Your boyfriend, as you have said, has been very attentive at times, but then other times has hurt your feelings. I suppose it is hard for someone to live with a chronically ill person and feelings are going to get hurt sometimes. Relationships are very precious and they need to be nurtured, good communication is the key to any good relationship. Only you can decide whether you can feel comfortable with your boyfriend. Hopefully you can have a better week this week.
Diagnosed with Lupus - 22 June, 2010