I cannot add anything more to the advice and responses that you have been given. I agree totally with the assessment that we should put articles in the medical journals to remind doctors of their hypocratic oath and, supposedly, their reasons for getting into the medical field. I think they forget that they are humans (not Gods), just like we are!!
At any rate...welcome to our family where, as you've seen, we understand and we care.
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