Hi there! Just wanted to say that I too am newly diagnosed. It is nice to come here and sometimes just read. Also to vent. I am lucky my partner is very understanding, but it gets old to always be talking about this stupid disease. Sometimes I get so angry I just cry. I think it's good, though, to let it out.
As for your fiance, I've found that it is important to share my feelings with those close to me. (Whatever you are comfortable talking about) Remember that your fiance knows something is wrong and would probably love the opportunity to help you in any way he can. I know my partner feels very helpless most of the time. I think it's important to acknowledge that your family and friends are going to have some emotions of their own related to your illness.
Possible Lupus 1995?
Fibro dx April 2005
Lupus dx September 2005
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