i know what you mean about having a lot wrong. my mother never called me her prablem child i was her sick child. as far as being lazy i agree with hatlady. the spoon theory is the best. since i found it i feel 100 times better about things and i share it with everyone i can. its totally changed how i feel even about myself. i used to let the "world" tell me i was a lazy person but learned not to let them dictate to me who or what6 i am. it really helped with the stress level in my life.
take care and learn to just be who you are. it really does matter.
through faith comes victory