Hi mom of two. I also welcome you and the same thing everyone else says all this could be lupus or something else. I hope you find a good rhuematologist as i did. I was dumped on him in the hosptial and i am so greatfull i was. Write down all questions you have and do not forget to tell him any symptoms you have. I also get copies of every test i have dopne so i can ask him about them on my next visit and he always answers them and even calls me on my cell phone when i need answers between visits. I was 58 years old when i got diagnosised with lupus and myositis and rhuematoid arthritis and migranes. Good luck Bonita