Oh my gosh - I am so happy and relieved to see that this forum is included on this site. In June, my husband and doctor has what they termed the tough talk with me. My husband has been bugging me to file. My doctor said that it isn't time to yet, but that the time is coming. Boy this was hard news for a self professed workaholic. I love my job but am seriously thinking about speaking with my boss about cutting back on the hours. Acutally to be honest I'm pretty sure that not cutting back isn't going to be an option much longer. I hate to admit this and really hate the thought that anyone would think that I'm being a big baby but it is getting so hard and I am feeling so bad lately that it makes me wonder if my husband is right. Anyway - just wanted to say how glad I was to see this forum.