Welcome to our family. I am Saysusie, Moderator/Administrator of WeHaveLupus. You've already met our Moderator, Rob. He is a wealth of information, support, and advice. Especially for men who are diagnosed with Lupus. We have a Men's forum here where guys can talk with one another about their perspective of this disease and can share information with each other.
I am glad that you found us and that you joined our family. Do peruse the site, read the "stickys" because they are filled with valuable information, and feel free to jump in at any time to join any conversation/thread.
Peace and Blessings
Look For The Good and Praise It!