So sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do.
Now is a good time to allow others the joy of giving back to you for all of the love and support that you have given to them in their time of need. It is a healing circle.
(I am editing this to say that I hope that sounds as I mean it which is kind and not mean. You do so much for so many of us I just know we would love to be able to support you as well)