Welcome to WHL. You've come to the right place for information, caring and friendship from people who understand. I'm sure that Rob will be along to greet you soon. He and some of the other men on the board should be able to tell you all about Lupus from the guys' perspective. Meanwhile, feel free to browse through the threads and learn as much as you can.
I'm sorry that you have to deal with this, but you sound like you have a good attitude. Keep doing that exercise, learn a lot about your condition and become your own best advocate. We'll always be here to try to answer any questions that you may have.