Ritzbitz, I can truly understand where you're coming from although we're a generation apart. I have a pill box like "old" people use am I'm not even old yet (depends on who you ask, I suppose.)
My former sister-in-law had juvenile onset diabetes. In her teens, she didn't eat right or take her insulin. She wanted to be a "normal" teenager (whatever the h*ll that is???). Believe me, it bit her in the butt later as she had two very high risk pregnancies and several eye operations. She even used diabetes as a defense when she was being held on criminal charges (she's now serving eight years, four months at Chowchilla for stabbing my brother, but that's another story in its entirety). Anyway, she was labeled a manipulator because she refused to take her meds and take care of herself. I'm sure that didn't bode well with the probation officer who made the sentencing recommendation.
You're hurting yourself by not taking your meds as prescribed. Your parents love you. They want you to be well. You are not helping yourself by defiant about it. I know you're not looking for any lectures, but I would be so frustrated if my son refused to wear his hearing aid because he was sick of it. If the meds that have been prescribed make you feel un-well, ask the doctor for alternatives.
You claim to love your boyfriend....wouldn't he (and your other family members) be so very sad if you weren't around any longer? Your being defiant hurts YOU in the end. Your parents have every reason to be angry for your not taking medicine as prescribed. They provide everything you need (and probably want) to live a good life. You're disrespecting them and YOURSELF by not doing your part.
I know you're sick of being sick and I understand that, but you do have options and you can control the situation (to an extent) by working with your parents and your doctors. You can choose to you use all your energy in fighting everyone and trying to hide the fact that you're not taking your meds or you can use that energy to concentrate on finding meds that are suitable and taking care of yourself. It's your choice.....