Hello Tabatha and Welcome to the forums!
Its great to hear that you have a supportive husband and that you've finally found this big lupus family here! You'll find all the answers you're looking for here and even more to questions you never thought to ask!
This is the best bunch of people you could ask for and I look forward to seeing your posts around the forums!
Numpty:- (num-p-tee) dialect, chiefly Scot, ~n. 1. a bumbling fool: one who is intellectually challenged. 2. widely known in Scotland as an MSP (Member of Scottish Parliament).