OMG Leaann, im so SORRY for this stomach-turning rollercoaster ride you are on. Its gut wrenching to actually KNOW whats GOING ON hun. A womans intuition is almost ALWAYS DEAD ON. I read about WOMENS INTUITION and the man that wrote it said "if only women WOULD LISTEN to their RED FLAGS and NOT question them when they have that QUESTION and/or THOUGHT going on in their heads". He said WOMEN are more in tuned to things than men are, we are literally BUILT that way, BUT they IGNORE what is going on (and what they question in their minds) BECAUSE we doubt ourselves too much, which just hurts us in the end in one way or another.
You are talking about it because you want confirmation from an outside party, BUT YOU ALREADY KNOW the TRUTH. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, well, you know the rest. DONT DOUBT WHAT YOU KNOW IS THE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you explained says RED FLAG,RED FLAG,RED FLAG. Hes NOT going to admit to anything he CAN EXPLAIN AWAY with WORDS right now. YOU have to LISTEN to YOURSELF and what is OBVIOUS. REREAD what your thread says, pretend its someone else, now WHAT would YOU THINK about it if it WASNT you. You said in your own words hun how so many things DONT ADD UP. Ive been in your place a long time ago AND WE DONT WANT TO FACE THE REALITY OF IT even though its SCREAMING at us. He will NEVER admit to anything he THINKS he can TALK his way out of. He wants YOU to believe his "STORY" because you havent TALKED to this person and/or walked in on something going on between them. Those things are PROOF he KNOWS he cant wiggle his way out of. HE WILL WIGGLE as long as he THINKS you're buying it.
GIVE YOURSELF THE CREDIT YOU DESERVE SWEETIE, YOU ARE SMART, DONT ALLOW HIM TO LET YOURSLEF QUESTION THAT FACT.
GOOD LUCK and im here if you need me GENTLE HUGS XXXXXX