Welcome to WHL! I am glad you joined, you will find so much support and encouragement here...
I am married almost 15 years now, have an 8yr old, a 6yr old and an 8 month old! Life is busy, but they keep me from wallowing! I think it really helps to have them to focus on, and distract from the pain. Not that it always works that way! I hope your family is supportive, I am lucky and have a husband who really tries to understand...
Have you read "the spoon theory"? I don't know the link, but it comes up quick on google. Your husband might get some insight from it.
Hope you are having a good weekend,
"You do not have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body." C.S. Lewis