Personally, I prefer not to have a "label"... I am still the same person I was before, only now I have this "thing"... (because I hate the words disease, illness, sickness... etc.) I am okay with just saying "I have Lupus" though, for some reason.... It's really odd... But to specifically CALL myself something... doesn't work for me personally... Maybe that will change, too... I don't know... But, I'd rather just be me... I didn't have a label before this, why should I now?