my bf has lupus. we are both early 30's. I'm female. he was diagnosed a year ago. I know he is living differently, can't drink, doesn't want to be social and can't stay out late, needs to be in bed at a reasonable hour...
I am starting to feel the effects of seeing someone with lupus, i guess. I am very social. I want to be out. I don't drink much and don't care to but would love for us to be able to be out and about more.
Is this realistic? can I say this to him w/o upsetting or offending him? He seems to be in a phase of depression because he is sick of being sick. I don't know what to make of my feelings. I feel guilty. Any men who could offer advice??