I'm glad you like it here-we aim to please! I really believe this is one of the most active Lupus websites on the net. There's always someone here, and I rarely ever see any question or comment go without a response for very long. We have a great bunch of people here that make this site as good as it is. As far as your bloodwork stats, it's your info, so tell them to fork over the copy ASAP. If they resist, tell them it's not a request, and remind them of the fact that they, work for you, not the other way around.
As far as the nonstop cleaning, well, I'm a single guy, and I can say that I have never had that happen. In fact, just getting started cleaning rarely happens! Anyway, welcome to our group!