sorry to hear what you are going through. It is hard for us men to understand sometimes, maybe that is why God is allowing me to be tested with this, if you ever need a male perspective please feel free to send me a message. I truly wish you the best of luck in your trials. Have a good 4th. God Bless. Jim.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulations, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort wich we ourselves are comforted by God. 2 Corinthians 1:3