Nothing like a little late night chat with the ex to spoil a perfectly good opportunity to catch a few elusive zzzz's. You have no control over what he chooses to tell you. You can control, however, how you choose to respond. Without risking love, you will never truly find it. Honor the risk you have taken and the love you have shared. Accept the gift you have received from that relationship and let go of the sadness and pain. Take care of yourself, heal, and have faith that there is a reason and a purpose for every thing that happens. You are unique and wonderful. There is love out there for you, in that you can trust.
Hang in there,