Oh i am so sad for you and felt your pain.Your husband maybe is adjusting to this situation,certainly not making an excuse for him here,just thinking the maybes.Maybe he is scared for you and you know some men,dont know how to react to difficult situations,well i think this is him trying to deal with your diagnosis.
I think like Froggal said,ask him if he will come to an appointment with you.Maybe then he will begin to give you support and start acting like a husband instead of your Father.I did giggle....how dare he say that to you...about the time you stayed up being unacceptable.I know some people when they are scared,unsure of an outcome find it so hard to show the correct emotion.
I live with my Mam.All my life she has always been ill.Now i am sick i am stunned at how she behaves towards me.She is viscious with her words at times.I think,all my life i spent looking after her it really hurts.So for you,with your husband who you love,must feel totally let down and under so much pressure.With me,i confronted my Mom.Unfortunately as i live in her house,she used the 'get your own house' card.Oh i feel so unwanted,a burden and sometimes as my diagnosis isnt confirmed a hypochondriac.But with you,your husband,i am praying once you sit him down,confront him with all what you feel,telling him his behavior towards you is UNACCEPTABLE, he will actually start to open up and you will find out why he is acting this way.Of all the times you need support from your loved one,its now.I will send over good strong vibes to you my friend.This will get sorted,but it means you confront the situation first,not nice i know.....but it could make you life a hell of a lot better.As you read posts here,from members, you will see most of us have been through similar situations.Once confronted,it does get better.In my case,well im not married to my Mom lol.
We are always here for you.Hope things begin to ease and this gets sorted.
sending you gentle hugs.
Last edited by Angel Oliver; 05-28-2009 at 03:22 AM.
I am still here,just been on new meds so unable to function like i used to.I will pop back,just know im thinking of you all and hoping you are keeping on keeping on.xxxxxxx