HI....Welcome to the world of LUPUS. We here are either diagnosed with LUPUS or are living with someone with it. WE understand what you feel,your fatigue and comstant worrying about this insideous disease. I am one of the unlucky men who contract this terrible disease and am also living with several other auto immune diseases as well as total spinal deterioration. I am only 47 yet totally retied. PLEASE should you have any questions on ,care,drugs,or any new tratments of this disease PLEASE feel free to ask,,,if you feel you want it kept confidential feel free to email me.....peace