Hello 52 yr female and Sasha,
I can fully understand having a successful job and keeping your sickness from everybody.But sometimes that can put more stress on yourself than actually help you. I am glad you both have found this wonderful forum. Please both ask all the questions you need to know, whatever they may be. I am not so knowledgeable as i am learning about Lupus as i go along too. But please dont suffer in silence because we are all here for you both and will help you through it. What i carnt answer, just hang in there and watch the many members come along and help you with their knowledge and answers. If you both look through the site, you will find 'stickys'.If you click on them all the answers are in them. If you can not find them, dont worry, we will answer them for you. Please know...YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!
P.s I am Angel aged 39 in the UK. I have M.E/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and a few other things, but i'll tell you about me another time.
I am still here,just been on new meds so unable to function like i used to.I will pop back,just know im thinking of you all and hoping you are keeping on keeping on.xxxxxxx