Hey there, i'm sorry to hear the tough time lupus has given you. Luckily your obviously a strong person, and theres plenty of people on here to talk to if times to try you, just go to Lauris Lounge and post there! It's really good to hear when people who have such a tough time overcome it. I can totally relate to the getting out of bed being a bit of a challenge when flaring, its like a concrete blocks been put on top of me, and to get over that, even if its just rolling out of bed is a sign that you can fight the illness as best as possible.
If you need a chat to anything feel free to message me