so happy you are reaching out, good for you! i'm not sure how to help you find kids your age with lupus but i do know if you surf around long enough on the computer you will find some great kids who have the same problems you do.
i know how lame it is to be sick and not be able to do what your friends are doing :cry: . when i get stuck in the house i do crafts, make jewelry or play on the computer, it helps pass the time and now i'm selling some of the stuff i have made!
keep us updated on how your friend search is going!