Welcome to the site. I read through your post and it does sound like you have Lupus and the antiphospholipid syndrome. I am sorry that you had so many miscarriages. I hope that you get to see a good Rheumatologist that specializes in the treatment of Lupus. Lupus is a really hard illness to diagnose and for some of us it took literally years to get diagnosed. I had mild symptoms until I was 35 when I got the Chickenpox and boy that is when the Lupus got dramatically worse and also this is when the Sjogrens decided to present itself as well. Keep on pressuring the doctors to test and retest if need be until you can get a definitive answer as to what is happening with you. Please keep posting.
Lupus for many years. Like most of my life. Sjogrens that started at 35 and Scoliosis, Spinal Stenosis, Degenerative Disc Disease, Osteo-Arthritis of the spine, Ankylosing Spondilitis, Periferal Neuropathy, mild CP and now just recently diagnosed with PA. I had a disc replaced in December of 2007.
Plaquenil, Sulindac, Imuran, Celiac diet, Tramadol and B12 shot once a month.