I am sorry to hear about the way your husband fails to support you and that is sad. He should understand that Lupus is a serious illness. I think that you need to take good care of yourself the best that you can. I hope that we can be of help here for you and make you feel better. There are a lot of nice folks that come in here and there are a lot of us with SLE Lupus. Please keep posting.
Lupus for many years. Like most of my life. Sjogrens that started at 35 and Scoliosis, Spinal Stenosis, Degenerative Disc Disease, Osteo-Arthritis of the spine, Ankylosing Spondilitis, Periferal Neuropathy, mild CP and now just recently diagnosed with PA. I had a disc replaced in December of 2007.
Plaquenil, Sulindac, Imuran, Celiac diet, Tramadol and B12 shot once a month.