So sorry to hear of your lousy symptoms - all while trying to be a mommy....I fully understand, I got sick about 9 months after my son was born. But when I really got sick - bedridden - I would have "special" time in Mommy's bed. We would color, or play cards - renting a movie is best - and you are still in bed but all your attention is on her. Even a story. I used to read one chapter a night out of a big book so they would be waiting to hear the rest the next night. I used "Harry Potter" but, that may be a bit old for her right now. Just try and make it "special"...turn out the lights, make popcorn - its HER time.
They feel really attended to, and you are still in bed getting your rest. THis is what worked for me for years with my kids. Not so much when my daughter became older but, you know what? She and I made popcorn the other night, put out the lights and rented a movie together. It was her idea... and it all stems from mommy's bed and "apecial" time. By the way, shes now 17!!
Good luck and hang in there...
For God has not given us a spirit of fear; but of power, love and a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7