Well em I don't know how valuable this is going to be but I have not quite been diagnosed with lupus but its very apparent that I have it I went to target this evening and had to literally sit down several times a while I was panicking because it is becoming more and more of a reality that I have IT anyhow I had a baby February 12th and had absolutely no complications I had aches and pains but had no idea they were related to lupus I have flat feet so just assumed my whole legs ached because of that and also when you are pregnant your breast get bigger I thought that was why my back hurt then about a month ago my hair started to fall out and I thought oh its cause I just had a baby but then my Ana came back positive so yes I believe I have lupus anyhow I think you should definately consult a doctor before attempting to get pregnant good luck and eveyone is in my prayers