Hi everybody! I am Paula and my mom thinks that I should try and find some people that i can talk to while i try and deal with this new news. I am only 18 and feel like everything is coming down on me. I also have diabetes. My friends don't seem to understand. They try to think that I don't have lupus and try and take me out to clubs and stuff, but really I'm just tired. And i also can't breath when I move around too much. Is that normal? I'm trying to go back to work but i work at a shoe store. Alot of walking and moving fast. Should i quit or keep it? Alot of unanswerd questions needing to be answerd! :roll: