I've never had children my self, but my sister lost five pregnacies before she was diagnosed. With the help of the Woman's clinic she was able to carry two babies full term and they are healthy beautiful teen agers now....and driving her completely mad hahahahaha. I love them to bits.
She never gave up on having children...though people certain tried to make her feel guilty about it. Her husband was mostly concerned about her well being. But he was willing to continue to try if she was. It broke his heart to watch what she went through each time she lost one.
She went into remission shortly after the second child was born and has been there ever since. I don't know why she's been in remission so long; I'm just very happy for her.