Welcome to the family. I know what a challenge it is to have this illness and also be a wife and mother. Especially when one of them gets sick. With me that usually means that my illness gets the back burner of my brain.
You are blessed to have a support network with your husband. Some spouses have a hard time dealing with this problem so you are ahead of the game.
I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep, and miles to go before I sleep.......Robert Frost