I have had many children-8 living, and 3 in heaven. I have the antiphospholipid (sorry bad spelling). I had a clot to the lungs with my 6th living child. We both lived. I was not as lucky with my last one. he was full term when he died. Also, 2 miscairages
I have only been diagnosed since October, but we can look back and see that I had this problem for years. My rheumy told me that based on the problems that I had with the latter 4 children (2 of which developed serious complications) and my blood work he felt that I probably had the problems for many years. I went to doctors, they just never took the right tests.
I have a friend who had one child. It was an extremely hard pregnancy, but her son was fine.
Also, as Faith said , there is always adoption. You and your spouse might be interested in that option.
We took in 2 children 4 years ago. There are many who need loving homes.
I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep, and miles to go before I sleep.......Robert Frost