Welcome to our forum and to our family here. I know that your beautiful wife is so very proud of you for being an advocate for her and for all Lupus sufferers. You stated that currently, your time has been spend caring for your wife. Is she currently in a flare?
Both you and your wife are very much welcome here. Being a strong advocate, you may not have many questions. But we are here to listen, provide support, to give comfort and to be here when you and she need to know that you are not alone.
Peace and Blessings
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