So as if i am not already depressed enough about having to quit my job and not being able to figure out what to do with my life now..my sister tells me today that she thinks i am milking my illness...she feels i could have worked a 40 hour week and that i am milking my parents because i can, even though i pay all my own bills i just live here for free. now i feel like i cant talk to anyone when i feel sad or sick because they will think i'm faking it or blaming it all on my lupus...has anyone ever had this happen?? i didnt ask for this...i dont want to feel like a loser and sit at home and thats what my family acts like..but i also dont know what i can and cannot handle right now....i had a really bad flareup from working 40 hours in 4 days..she doesnt get it...=(