So as if i am not already depressed enough about having to quit my job and not being able to figure out what to do with my life sister tells me today that she thinks i am milking my illness...she feels i could have worked a 40 hour week and that i am milking my parents because i can, even though i pay all my own bills i just live here for free. now i feel like i cant talk to anyone when i feel sad or sick because they will think i'm faking it or blaming it all on my lupus...has anyone ever had this happen?? i didnt ask for this...i dont want to feel like a loser and sit at home and thats what my family acts like..but i also dont know what i can and cannot handle right now....i had a really bad flareup from working 40 hours in 4 days..she doesnt get it...=(