Hi Lauri :lol:
In a way, it gives me comfort to be able to use that name :lol:
I am so happy that you found us and that you decided to join us. Yes, we are indeed a family here and everyone is very kind, supportive, understanding, comforting, and informative. We want you to know that you are not alone and there will always be someone here to help you in any way that we can.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your child. My daughter also suffered a miscarriage early in her pregnancy. But, there have been many successful pregnancies (even by some members here) and it is possible to have a healthy baby when you have Lupus.
You are very lucky to have a good rheumatologist who also confers with your gynecologist. With good care, lifestyle changes, medication etc., you should be able to maintain a reasonably healthy lifestyle.
I wish you the very best and, again, I am so glad that you joined us!
Peace and Blessings
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