Thank you for information. There is a medical supply store by my house, i drive by it all the time and have been meaning to stop in and check it out. I will also check out the wipes you suggested. I didn't realize that Comfort Care wipes weren't no rinse or had soap. I guess I didn't read them as carefully because they use them in the hospital and she liked them. But it may cause problems with long term use. I'll definately read more carefully!
I will look in the incontenance area more closely for oinments and stuff.
Thank you Marycain!