Hi, Monica - and welcome. I am so sorry for the loss of your child; that must have been so difficult for you. But I am glad that you are doing better healthwise.
Have your doctors discussed blood transfusions for your anemia? I've had to have them multiple times, and they make a huge difference in my energy levels. So if your anemia doesn't improve with treatment of your lupus, it might be something to discuss with your docs.
I am so glad you joined us, and look forward to talking with you more.