it is possible, and quite normal that every person has a slightly different set of symptoms form lupus.
our body reacts slightly differently, to the next person.
but one thing that is unfortunately quite common is ....
that many of us have problems with emotions.
for many of us, our feelings are either on or off.
there is no 1/2 measure.
it is possible that this is what is happening to your girlfriend.
I lived with my wife for 6 years before we were married.
we lived together for 14 years after our marriage.
but my lack of emotion became too much for her.
we are no longer together.
it was not the only reason for our separation .....
but it was a big extra that swayed her mind.
doctors do not acknowledge this as a side effect ....
but many of us have similar stories to tell.
maybe .... if you can accept it .....
time and friendship will help both of you adjust to her new normal.
she probably does not understand what is happening to her.
it was only after a few years of reading others stories that I put it all together.
When you're stressed, You eat Ice cream, Cake, Chocolate & Sweets. Why? Because stressed spelled backwards is DESSERTS.