MrsMurdena, I wonder if it could be fibromyalgia? I know there are 'tender spots' that define fibromyalgia. You can search on the web to read about that and even see a diagram of where those tender spots are. I don't know a lot about the disease, but in my reading about lupus, I've read that those with lupus can often have fibromyalgia as well. Here's one link (Mayo Clinic) that will describe fibromyalgia, and it includes a 'diagram' of those tender spots. Probably worth asking your doctor about.