I am so sorry this is happening to you. I understand about the wheelchair. I was in a wheelchair last winter when my arthritis was so bad and I agree wtih you we are way way to young for this (i'm 22)
Right now i'm with a cane and already I can feel my legs giving out under the pressure so my wheelchair is waiting for me. I know mine isn't the same since as soon as the warmer wheather comes I can walk, but i know with my RA it's not long before I'm relying more and more on the chair instead of my legs. Thats lupus and that's RA for you.
Is it more because of pain that you cannot walk or is it numbness?
Mine is more of the pain so usually in the winter the pain is worse that's why i have my chair.
I do hope you feel better soon
feel free to PM me anytime i do understand and I know LUPUS SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!
SLE Lupus. Fibro, IBS, RA\
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"I'm not broken, I'm antique; a little worn out but still beautiful if not more so because of it."