HI sounds to me like you've got the early onset of lupus.
I had all that before my dx. I was having all the signals of lupus like fatigue, fever, chest pain, joint pain, muscle stiffness, ect.... But also I had the fact taht my fingers and hands even my legs would feel jelloy.
I found I coudn't pick up a pitcher of water or sometimes I'd pick up a plate and it would just fall out of my hands so plastic it was for me after. My legs would feel so weak and they would give out. My fingers and toes would be numb too. I hear this isn't to common in lupus.
So I also had my ANA first negitive then it was barely positive they suspected lupus for quite a few years then finally it progressed and my ANA was very positive.
So don't give up keep on keeping on and keep pressing the doctor to do more tests and such because that's the only way to get an answer.
But you're not alone I was there too my RA was even negitive at first.
take care nad I wish I could come over there and give you a big hug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
SLE Lupus. Fibro, IBS, RA\
Matt's Brown Eyed Girl!
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