Welcome to our family! I am so sorry for your losses which, I am sure, are nearly unbearable. I lost my daughter (the inspiration for this site) to Lupus, so I understand - in some small measure - your loss. However, I am pleased to hear the way that you've determined to always get back up! "We fall down, but we get up" Donny McKlurkin.
There are quite a few men on this site, one of whom is our moderator, Steve. There is also a Men's Forum here, but I'm afraid it is not as active as I'd like it to be. However, fear not, you will always find that there is someone here to talk to if you need, to provide answers for your questions, to research information for you, to give you advice, and/or to just be supportive and comforting.
Again...welcome to our family!
Peace and Blessings
Look For The Good and Praise It!