hi brenda, and welcome.
yes you have worked it out just fine.
the comments and threads of new people are delayed to start with.
this is done so that spammers and professional sales people do not inundate us with there rubbish.
a moderator has to approve all new threads for a little while, then as you are recognised as belonging here, your threads will appear automatically.
i deleted your second thread, as i approved this one.
please take the time to read a few of the older threads,
they are our personal experiences with lupus.
add comments where you feel you would like to ...
and welcome to your new cyber family.
hopefully we can help each other.
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