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Thread: Hi..and advice please...

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    Default Hi..and advice please...


    I am brand new to the site so nice to meet you all.

    The reason I am posting is that I am dating the most fantastic and beautiful woman...I am in love with her (not told her yet but am sure she has guessed) we are serious about a long term relationship / possibly marriage and I couldn't be happier about that.

    She has SLE and that doesn't make the slightest difference to me. I have read up about it but have no experience... I adore her and want to show love and support but want to be sensitive and understanding without overdoing it and putting her off.

    I think she is having a 'flare' (is that right?) at present and for the last few days and it breaks my heart she is unwell. I want to show that I care. I don't know whether to text or call to say that I hope she is feeling better or just to be patient and wait until she gets back to me..

    I really don't want to screw this up. She means the world to me.

    Does this make any sense? Any advice please?


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    pinjarra, western australia
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    hi Rival,
    and welcome.

    it is always a pleasure to hear that someone cares enough to find out more.

    thank you for trying to understand.

    please read a few of the older posts .....
    they are our history with lupus.

    please also use the search function ....
    it is great for isolating particular words.

    a couple of threads that may interest you are ....

    please feel free to ask as many questions as you need.
    we will try to help you understand.
    When you're stressed, You eat Ice cream, Cake, Chocolate & Sweets. Why? Because stressed spelled backwards is DESSERTS.

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