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    Default Hi..and advice please...

    Hello

    I am brand new to the site so nice to meet you all.

    The reason I am posting is that I am dating the most fantastic and beautiful woman...I am in love with her (not told her yet but am sure she has guessed) we are serious about a long term relationship / possibly marriage and I couldn't be happier about that.

    She has SLE and that doesn't make the slightest difference to me. I have read up about it but have no experience... I adore her and want to show love and support but want to be sensitive and understanding without overdoing it and putting her off.

    I think she is having a 'flare' (is that right?) at present and for the last few days and it breaks my heart she is unwell. I want to show that I care. I don't know whether to text or call to say that I hope she is feeling better or just to be patient and wait until she gets back to me..

    I really don't want to screw this up. She means the world to me.

    Does this make any sense? Any advice please?

    Thanks

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    hi Rival,
    and welcome.

    it is always a pleasure to hear that someone cares enough to find out more.

    thank you for trying to understand.

    please read a few of the older posts .....
    they are our history with lupus.

    please also use the search function ....
    it is great for isolating particular words.

    a couple of threads that may interest you are ....
    http://forum.wehavelupus.com/showthr...e-spoon-theory

    http://forum.wehavelupus.com/showthr...-CFS-Fibro-%85

    please feel free to ask as many questions as you need.
    we will try to help you understand.
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