I don't know about you, but since I have been ill...actually, that's forever, so maybe I should say 'because I'm ill...' I find it difficult to opt out of the fun things people to invite me to in a way that doesn't playback to sound like "I can't do anything, I can't be bothered, I'm boring, I'm just searching for an excuse to say no".
Of course, this could just be how it sounds to me (since in my own little world my health is such a big thing!).
Is there a way to say no thanks to something whilst making it clear I still like people and being invited, I just have to be careful what I do!?
This could just be my need for people to like me despite the fact I often stay in and recently have been too unwell to socialise much at all.