Hi! I'm looking for other lupus patients who have had it almost all their lives and are now approaching 70 years old. Many of my terrible symptoms are gone, but I'm so tired I can hardly take care of myself. My husband is good but never home. Our diet is terrible, he picks up junk food. Our home is warm and comfortable, I live in our living room. I'm too tired to care about anything, have company, or talk on phone. I only go to chemo and doctor once a month. Is there anyone else like this?