it is never easy to admit we need help .......
it is even harder to tell our partner that we cannot keep up with our end of the bargain (marriage vows), (1/2 the work load).
as a male, and supposed to be the bread winner, (in my eyes) ..... i found it very hard to talk openly with my wife.
she was having health issues herself, and i now had to say, i cannot take care of you any more.
one of the best things i have found for males to help under stand is .....
females think differently to males.
a lot of males do not really understand the spoon theory .....
but most females relate to it easily.
i hope both of these can help the two of you support each other.
unfortunately, i am no longer with my wife .....
she has found that i have changed so much mentally,
and she has problems with who i have become.
sometimes we are better accepting to live separate lives.....
sometimes we need to change to keep our lives together.
we always need to be true ....
to ourselves and our partner.
When you're stressed, You eat Ice cream, Cake, Chocolate & Sweets. Why? Because stressed spelled backwards is DESSERTS.