I work best under stress, I can clean like a mad woman when I know somebody is coming over. My husband helps, actually he does alot and I had to learn to overlook the round corners, the not so shiny looking microwave door ( he wipes it down, but doesn"t polish so it leaves streaks). I do appreciate his help but had to lower my standarts a little. But you know what it is clean and we don't live in filth, that is important. It took me a while to see that, but I am greatful to have a hubby that not only pitches in but does most of the cleaning. God, I LOVE HIM.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).